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my girlfriend blocked me everywhere. what i can do?
She said she was tired of my posts ... and blocked, it was a week ago ... Since then did not communicate ... Who sent SMS to her, I do not know whether or not it has come ... to ask what happened, but there is no answer. .. given her word to come to the New Year, but now unlikely ... I'm shocked ... We talked a few months ... And in intimate terms, too ...
You can not understand such a daring indifference on her part without daring reason. Quite possible. In my life there was a situation when I am madly in love was ready to run for a person to the end of the world. And everything seems to be perfect, and he began to answer calls frequently. They were less likely to see. All what the affairs and concerns. And then by chance I called his cell phone and heard him talking to another girl. And the conversation was not about what the weather is on the street. And then everything fell into place. It became clear why no answer, why not see each other. He even said he was leaving for the competition for a long time, and in fact was in the city. Just the time spent on the other. I left him, and on the phone. He was terribly upset and turned the whole situation so much that I was to blame in all, thus completely denying the existence of the other. It was a shame, it took several years and found that it's all true. I tried to return it even after the cast. In general it has turned into a rag. But time heals nothing. Now I have the best husband in the world. And this bastard 9 years after rasstavniya trying to find me, even found, but he was so nasty over the years has become. So if you want to get to the real cause of her behavior, dig. Just be prepared for anything. And especially do not suffer, if this girl is so estranged, so no luck. The one that fate has come.
Alien soul - darkness, as we know. Perhaps something a girl did not like, and the courage to explain not enough. Or, on the contrary, it showed excessive delicacy, did not want to offend you in their own words. You can understand, it is not clear why this happens, no explanation. Try to analyze the last meeting, can something hurt themselves unwittingly. What can I do? If you want complete clarity and the girl of your road, fight for their happiness. You write that you met, then something must be aware of the girl, residential address, place of study or work, try to meet her and explain, but without claims and accusations, but calmly and steadfastly. If you think that it is useless, try to come to terms with her decision. So there was some reason to have a girl, it is her right, and we must respect it. Think of everything that happened as a certain experience of relationships, postrataytes use it in the future. Maybe you have a friend or a friend with whom you can consult, telling them all the details of your relationship. From the sometimes visible.
You no longer meets the girl and the grandmother almost, because just yesterday she "always blocked" a grandfather who just got his declarations of love and invitations to a meeting. So much so, that by using blackmail like that with him went to the cafe, restaurant or somewhere else, do not go, they say, be offended with no failures (I can not, do not want to love someone else) do not act as if he does not hear them, in fact I just sick of it, so that it is not anywhere to go, had "always" block. In his nearly 60 it's time to understand things. But you are still young, you will all be forgiven. So you want to say next. I think so: if the girl you always blocked, then, really, you do not want to see or hear, if it was some kind of game, it would not do, I would have left you an opportunity to respond. Judging by what you write, there are 2 options. First - if there was an intimate communication, perhaps you it physiologically unpleasant, is often the case, there is nothing wrong and the point here is certainly not to you may be in it (if before you had someone over her perfect, great love, can It was). Second - just I met someone else who she seems to be more promising, and your SMSes and calls her compromise. In any case, in this situation you have to show a real man, but you just have to be. Do not write to her more and no call. Because in the first case, you can not change anything, and even if it is as you want, you, for example, getting married, it's no good will not lead to it, trust my experience. But in the second, if something she had with someone else does not work out, she may regret you. Watch until her side. And if it will appeal to you, in any case do not show any resentment, no jealousy, no negativity, as if nothing had happened, you're a man, you - more, and then she - yours. You will need more advice, please write to me in PM.
Maybe your girlfriend sick excessive interest in her personality. There are people who do not like too much attention and care, all should be in moderation. I was also the guy I loved, but his immense love me, as I thought at the time, I just choked. Too much love, it's like overeat too much sladkogo- starts vomiting. Give the girl a while you relax. When she sees that your interest in it fades away, then maybe you will want to return back, if you do not want to, it means you are not interested and do not want, and it means that you need to forget and start to build other relationships.
Maybe she just does not want to communicate with you. There is another question for you with a girl before communicating in real life? I asked why? Tell your story once met a girl on the internet started writing then switched telephone communication communicate so more than a month. Then he made an appointment where when and by how much, and then I received a message that not all supposedly want to chat with me and all she just stopped talking. And the conversation was serious in the flesh before it has almost recognized each other in love and were going to build semyu.Ya long tried to phone her and then did not take trubku.A still phoned she told me directly I'm sorry I'm sorry but I'm used to being itself and is no longer what I do not. So all this was over. I for myself and decided then so be it. I will not make it to communicate with me by force.
I've had similar cases, but I was a girl, though not blocked, but stopped responding. When the "tired" and very angry. I know how the people in this case behaved ... just terrible, even no words. Persistence, indecent behavior, arrogance, boredom conversations meaninglessness for me (if it makes sense to communicate with me, I do not find, in turn, for it), as a person strongly and stubbornly fixated on the fact that only interested in him. I do not know what you've done with it, but if the descriptions are so few, then most likely it was something like that. I could certainly be wrong and apologize earlier, but for all that the majority, the vast majority of modern men behave this way. Especially those who wrote on the Internet. Maybe you need to think about how you acted, generally in this case to do so is not accepted, but all the same I advise, as this is what solves the problem. As to what to do. If it happens so that you somehow found the cause, try to fix it, and it is desirable to meet up with this girl personally. If you can not, write it with the "fakes" that she could not block. Make it clear to her that you realize that it is not so, it absolutely will work.
I wish you the time of day! Forgive me please if I do not say so, but you are, as I understand it, it is quite normal, decent man, and woman. Your mistake is that you are putting it up yourself. People feel when they are put forward for the lead role, and love and love, are trying to please, looking for ways to establish communication relationships. You know, some people, such efforts are appreciated, valued, that they are loved. However, most sow perceives the situation as a weakness, lack of will, obsession of the man who in the cake disintegrates when confronted for the sake of love. Understand that you and she is equal. Anybody no higher nor lower. She did not need? And you? Must crawl before her, pleading, request that you did not throw that you paid attention? Put yourself in such a way that it is up to you to run. First of all, respect. This is your priority. With this approach, you have a chance that it comes up that you are a man with whom she should do with dignity. That such men; solid, independent, self-respecting, proud and steadfast love to a woman. He throws as throw. But if you'll beg her to give you a drop of love to speak with you and so, you just threw it. Do not show that you are in pain, you are waiting for her very. Suppose she sought and is looking for you. I wish you success. Hold on.
What do pause "eat Twix", you need to give all the rest. Then he can go and dialogue, but to achieve the main meeting in reality. That is to act on the principle of "if the mountain will not come to Mohammed, Mohammed goes to the mountain." Girls love the perseverance and she will appreciate it. And to find out all you need in reality, on the Internet you are unlikely to achieve what -That. Besides, girls love to "go off to their back" - as one of the answers, but it is harmful and that the game is not worth it. Well, summing itgog that you have a crisis in the relationship that needs to be solved and not to force a real communion and relationship. Good luck!